Sep 11, 2023
Here’s a test for your self-confidence. When you enter a room, can
you manage to entertain the thought " I know that everyone here
can’t wait to meet me. I just don't expect them to realize it yet."
You may not be at all certain that everyone in every room loves
you, but you’ll find that pretending they do works nicely when you
want to make someone's day.
Rather than spending so much time wandering about armored against
criticism and rejection, become aware that everyone around you may
be wary of you. This emotional arms race drives people apart in
every home, office, subway car, dentist's office, and corporate
cafeteria on earth.
But pretending other people need you flips the vicious cycle into a virtuous one. Imagine how you'd enter a conference room if you knew without a doubt that everyone in it adored you. How would you move? How would you look at people? What would you say?
When you practice these empowering thoughts daily you become socially intelligent and better able to handle everything that comes your way.
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